NOBODY else but you.

What it’s like to be in a LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP?

Why do most people say that love can’t last long if both of you are terribly miles apart?

Should I stay or should I let go?

A long distance relationship is when partner A and B for whatever reasons shared a relationship between time and distance. It’s when partner A can’t even had a glimpse of partner B or can’t even hold hands, and worst can’t even have the perfect time to sit and talk.

A lot of people doesn’t want to be in this kind of relationship, even myself. Most would decide to end the relationship before partner A or B had to go and leave. I believe that one of the common reason is FEAR. Fear that partner A or B would be unfaithful anytime especially that either of them is not around.

But why am I in this kind of relationship when in the first place I don’t want to?

I did this because I need to fix myself. I need time to be alone. I need time to make friends with new set of people and still believe that they won’t betray me like the people I had to get rid of. I need to erase the concept of other people about me saying  that I’m a user. I need to prove myself  that I can stand alone even without someone to offer me some help. I need a job with a good pay to support my family and to make my dreams come true.

Is that a bad decision? Is it bad to want peace with my own self? or to dream a good future?

I know that I choose my career over my relationship. I decided to made my career as the number one on my priority list. Because when I had chosen love before, I ended up broken. I ended up losing my self-esteem. I ended up  with a broken heart. It’s gonna be different this time. I wouldn’t want to make the same mistake twice.

I had to leave alone with a broken heart and with my new life, I found peace and happiness. Though its freaking hard to live alone, I’d rather want to feel this than let other people break me over and over.

I had to credit myself for choosing this option, because it made me stronger. I might feel that my partner doesn’t have time for me sometimes, and it made me feel awfully bad, I would like her to know that the feeling is normal. Because if I don’t miss her, I won’t feel that way. If I don’t love her, why should I bother myself?

No matter how far we are from each other, no one could take my heart away from her. Her love is incomparable and no one could ever level that. We’ve been through a lot of tough times, but she stick to me all the way. I love her because I don’t know. I just love her for no goddamn reason.

And the FEAR that most people feel, it didn’t scared me at all. Our love for each other is stronger and fear can’t even get in to break us apart. I’d rather feel scared and away but still knows that she’s there for me, than to feel scared and away and knowing that no one waits and wants me – that’s more SCARY.

There’s nothing to be afraid of. If you both love each other, even time and distance is no big deal at all. In fact, it will only make your relationship even more stronger. And if your partner for some reason becomes unfaithful, be thankful, at least you have known it for the earliest time than regret forever.

Remember, being miles apart is some sort of test for a relationship. If both of you still wants each other after a long time of being away and remains faithful that means a love to keep forever.

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